Confidence II

Confidence is not something that always comes easy, but the good thing about it is that we can control how we come across to others, even when we don't feel our best. From speaking in front of your class, to communicating with people u just met, or going to a family gathering when you may be on the more shy side. It's okay to not feel your best sometimes, but remember, you are so special and important. You are accepted and loved more than you could know. A confident you is self-assurance. Believing in yourself, feeling positive about you and the things that you want to accomplish. Knowing you can do these things. For example, you don't want to allow another persons negative opinions about you to change who you are, you already have it in yourself. That's where your self talk comes in. When people bombard you with all their negative talk about you, you remind yourself that you are wonderfully made and accepted... by a confident you :)

Think about what makes you feel good about yourself as a reminder of the confident person that you are and will continue to be.

Acting confident when you don't feel your best is also a good way to test your acting skills!

When are you the most confident?

Think of all of the things in your life that you are grateful for, the things that bring you joy, the things you love about yourself.

You are just human

Finding your confidence if redirecting yourself to how you want to feel. The next time you are feeling low about yourself, try a little smile and see if that doesn't help a smidge. It may take a little time, but it will grow on you. Then others will never know you weren't as confident as you expressed. Best trick ever.